Are women from Usa as crazy as the media shows us?

I don’t want to sound racist or anything but are women from USA as crazy as we see in music videos, movies, TV, etc.? I’ll be visiting California in a few months for my brother’s wedding and I’m quite introverted to participate in wild parties. I know weddings in the States can get a little crazy where guests often hook up from one another but are these claims even true?

I’d like to give examples like Katy Perry’s song “California Girls” or Miley Cyrus’ “Party in the USA” to paint a picture to you guys. In their music videos and lyrics, it sounds to me that people in the States love to party or are liberated af. I’m just not into parties like that, you know? I’d rather avoid stuff like that. Can anyone (ideally from USA) tell me if these claims are true? I can’t say no to my brother and his fiancee so I’m mentally preparing myself of what’s to come. Thanks so much.